How to Use a Vibrator During Sex

Written by: Stacy M | Published on January 11, 2025

There's nothing better than toe-tapping, heart-pumping sex, but what to do when things get a little dull in the bedroom? The truth is that sometimes same-old same-old isn't enough sex just isn't enough, especially if you've been with the same partner for a while. Luckily, you can use a vibrator during sex to spice up your next bedtime encounter.

Whether you're new to using toys in the bedroom or a veteran, a vibrator can change your life!

They are not only for women, but men can enjoy the sweet vibrations too. If you're ready to experience more fun and exciting sex, it's time to learn how to use a vibrator during sex!

Vibrators are products that enhance sexual pleasure through vibration. Vibrators come in a variety of shapes and sizes, from small and compact to large. You can choose from battery-powered or plug-in models for added external pleasure. You can even purchase portable products for fun on the go!

Did you know that 18% of women are unable to reach orgasm through penetration alone? Many need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. Even men don't reach orgasm every time they have sex, and sometimes may need help to reach orgasm. But the benefits of using a vibrator during sex go far beyond reaching orgasm.

1: Enhanced pleasure

A vibrator enhances your sexual arousal, which leads to an overall enhanced pleasure experience.

2: Multi-sensory stimulation

Vibrators come in different shapes, intensities and sizes. Playing with them can stimulate different parts of the body, bringing new and exciting sensations.

3: Self Discovery

Using a vibrator during sex can help you discover what you like and don't like between the sheets. The more you know about your sexual preferences, the more fulfilling sex will be.

4: Improved sexual health

Vibrators can help you strengthen your pelvic floor muscles, which helps with bladder control and can lead to more intense orgasms. In addition, they relax the vaginal muscles and improve pain during intercourse.

5: Fun.

Regardless of the added benefits, using a vibrator during sex can be a lot of fun. It gives incredible sensations and allows you to relax and leave your inhibitions behind.

When it comes to vibrators, there is a seemingly endless variety to choose from. Whether you use them alone or with a partner, each one offers unique sensations. Let's take a look at some of the most popular vibrators below.

2: Bullet vibrators

Bullet vibrators are the small but mighty sex toy. Don't let their compact stature fool you; these little guys pack a punch. Some models include finger attachments that are great to use during sex. They're also easy to hold and use on numerous areas like the perineum, clitoris, and nipples. 

Because of their small size, it's not safe to use bullet vibrators internally. If you plan to use it during anal sex, this is especially important since you should never use anything in your anus that doesn't have a cord, ring-pull, or flared base.

3: Cock ring vibrators

This one's for the men and the ladies! Vibrating cock rings fit around the base of the penis and feel great for both partners. They're perfect for vaginal and anal sex or even for adding extra stimulation during blowjobs. You can also add them to a dildo for the perfect pairing of vibration and penetration. 

4: Wand vibrators

When you want powerful vibration, reach for a wand vibrator. These mighty toys offer serious vibration and are perfect for use on the clitoris, stimulating the external prostate, or between two vulvas when scissoring. You can also use them on the testicles or penis, but you may want to turn the power down when touching the sensitive head.

When it comes to using a vibrator during sex, the only limit is your creativity. But if you're not sure where to start, here are some fun ideas.

During foreplay

Integrating a vibrator during foreplay can lead to faster arousal. Try lying with your partner, taking turns stimulating one another with a mix of the vibrator, your hands, and your mouth. Pay attention to all sensitive areas, including the nipples, inner thighs, and stomach. 

Keep the vibrations low, or turn it up for a more intense experience. Just remember, they work really well, so you may find yourselves orgasming before you know it. Another exciting way to use a vibrator during sex is with face sitting. Have you or your partner lie down while the other sits on their face to enjoy oral sex. 

Either partner can use the vibrator to stimulate the clitoris, vulva, testicles, or penis. You can take it to the next level by having both partners perform oral sex simultaneously, a position called 69.

During missionary

Missionary position doesn't have to be boring, especially when a vibrator's involved. Hold your vibrator against the bottom partner's penis or clitoris or reach around and place it against the anus or perineum. Try spicing it up by having the person on the bottom hold their legs up for easier access during penetration.

During doggy style

"Hitting it" from the back allows for insanely deep penetration and pairs perfectly with a vibrator. Being on all fours makes it easy for either partner to place the vibrator on the clitoris or testicles. If you like multiple stimulation, try inserting the G-spot vibrator during vaginal or anal sex.

Using a vibrator during sex to add freshness and passion. No matter which one you choose, don't be afraid to play around with it and have fun. There's no rules; it's all about what feels good for you and your partner.

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