How to Use a G Spot Vibrator

A G-spot vibrator is a toy meant to be inserted into the vagina to stimulate the G-spot. These vibrators usually have curved shafts and/or contoured heads to hit all the right spots. Sometimes, the curve is quite extreme, while other times, a G spot vibrator has a more gradual curve.

When it comes to G-spot vibrators, simple often works as well as luxury or more complex. You don’t need an app or remote, for example (but they can be fun!). A toy with the right shape that’s rigid enough to offer intense stimulation will usually do the trick–even a cheap one made from plastic. 

However, spending a little more can get you a rechargeable G spot vibrator, so you don’t have to worry about batteries. If you want to play in the shower, buy a waterproof toy.

You don’t even need a dedicated G-spot vibrator. You can purchase attachments for popular wand massagers like the Magic Wand Original to experience their powerful vibrations internally!

You can also buy dual stimulators, which offer vaginal/G-spot and clitoral stimulation at the same time! This includes the rabbit vibrator, made infamous by Sex and the City. A G spot rabbit vibrator may have a curved shaft or contoured head, but not every rabbit has a shape like this.

Somewhat similar to the G spot rabbit vibrator is a couple’s vibrator that you insert during penetration. We-Vibe has innovated this popular vibrator, and other companies offer their own takes. While they may not be labeled as G spot vibrators, they are essentially a type of G spot and clit vibrator that can feel good for your partner, too.

There are too many interesting G-spot vibrators to list them all. Some toys promise dual G-spot and anal stimulation if you’re a fan. Keep in mind that there’s no such thing as a G spot bullet vibrator because bullets are small toys intended for external use.

The G-spot confuses many people, perhaps because it’s not really a spot or even an organ. Research into the human body has failed to find a specific organ that could be the G-spot. Instead, it’s an area in the vagina that responds to stimulation through the vaginal wall. So what’s being stimulated if not an actual organ? The larger clitoral structure! 

Yes, the clitoris is much larger than the visible nub and hood on the outside of the body. Your clitoris is about four inches long and extends inside your body to the front (anterior) wall of your vagina. When you have a G-spot orgasm, it’s really a type of clitoral orgasm. Eat your heart out, Freud!

Because of how they interact, the clitoris, G-spot, and urethra are sometimes described as the greater clitourethrovaginal, CUV for short. Of course, the term “G spot” is well known, so there’s no reason to change what you call it if you don’t want to. You’ll almost certainly never see a G spot vibrator described as a “CUV vibrator.”

The easiest way to discover your G-spot is to use your fingers. This spot is on the front wall, around two to three inches inside. You want to feel for a place that feels like a small bunch of grapes. Generally, you can find it in a slight valley or dip. Pressing or stimulating the G-spot feels a bit like having to pee.

If you’re struggling to find your G-spot, try other things that feel good and turn you on. This should cause blood to rush to the area and cause swelling, making the spot more straightforward to find. You can even make it a sensual experience by lighting some candles or first taking a bath.

Some companies make products designed to increase blood flow to your G-spot, which could help if you struggle to find it.

Sometimes, it’s easiest to find your G-spot with a toy such as a vibrator, especially when it’s designed to hit the right spot.

You can also press your hand down on your mons, the fleshy spot below your belly. This can make it easier to find your G-spot and make playing with it feel better. Just make sure you buy attachments that will fit your wand!

Different positions make finding your G-spot and using a G-spot vibrator easier. Consider doggie style, which is a fan favorite for G-spot play during partnered sex. You can get on your hands and knees during solo play if it gives better access to that sensual spot.

It’s always a good idea to start with a compatible lube to ensure you’re comfortable. Note that water-based lube will wash off with water, so opt for silicone lube and a compatible toy.

Some people like to start with fingers or a small G-spot vibrator or get in a clitoral orgasm before moving to penetration.

When you’re ready to use the vibrator, simply slide it into your vagina with the curve or bulbous head pointed forward.

What you do next will depend on what feels good to you. Below are some options.

• Thrust the toy quickly against your G spot.

• Hold the toy in place while stimulating your clitoris with a vibrator or your fingers.

• Use the toy to milk your G spot.

If you’re using a G spot rabbit vibrator, it may not be possible or feel good to thrust with it. Plus, thrusting can move the clitoral stimulator away from your clitoris, which isn’t much fun.

You may want to switch between techniques as you get more aroused.

G-spot stimulation can feel good and lead to orgasm and possibly squirting or ejaculation. It’s possible that using a G-spot vibrator will feel good but not make you cum. You can also have a G-spot orgasm without squirting or ejaculating. Some people even ejaculate without having an orgasm.

Often, using a G-spot vibrator to orgasm or ejaculate can make you feel like you really have to pee. You usually need to let go to enjoy it. Placing a sex blanket or towel beneath you can protect your bed from any fluids you may expel–and any mess from lube!

Some people prefer to remove toys to ejaculate. Keeping them in can block the fluid from leaving your body and even hurt! 

You might be surprised to realize that using a G-spot vibrator with a partner can be a little truck. This happens for several reasons.

1. Your partner can’t feel what you feel to know how to move the G-spot vibrator.

2. When partners use G spot vibrators on you, they usually hold them at different angles than we do.

3. A partner doesn’t automatically know what you like.

Thankfully, you can work past these issues by talking about what you like. Don’t just grimace and bear it.

Encourage them to start softly and slowly. You can always add speed or roughness, but you can’t undo accidental pain. You might want to start with a softer G-spot vibrator because it may be easier to be hurt with rigid G-spot vibrators.

As always, remember to use a dollop of lube!

Don’t think you have to stick to G spot stimulation when it comes to your new vibrator, either. Many times, these vibes can be multitools!

G-spot vibrators can often be used for amazing clitoral orgasms without having to buy another toy. So, the next time you want to flick the bean, try the head of your G spot toy instead.

Some G spot vibrators can also work well for prostate stimulation, thanks to their curve. The prostate can be stimulated through the anus. 

You can only use a G spot vibrator with flared bases anally, however. Otherwise, it could get sucked into your rectum and send you to the emergency room! 

If your G-spot vibrator fits into a harness, you could try using it for pegging. This is when you use a toy with a strap-on harness to penetrate your partner anally. 

G-spot vibrators come in a variety of materials. Not all of them are safe for your body. For example, TPR and TPE have tiny holes called pores where bacteria can hang out even after you wash a toy. 

Jelly and rubber toys–often the ones that have a strong chemical smell like a shower liner–can leech chemicals. Storing these toys together can cause them to become misshapen or fuse together.

Nonporous materials include:

• Silicone

• Glass

• Treated Ceramic

• ABS plastic

While metals such as stainless steel and treated are both nonporous, you’re less likely to find vibrators made from those materials.

Silicone is the gold standard for materials. It’s available from super soft to nearly rigid formulas. When layered over hard plastic, as is the case with many vibrators, silicone is perfectly hard.

You may be able to find some glass or ceramic G spot vibrators, although they’re less common. It’s more likely that you’ll find plastic G spotters, including the traditional slimline style. For those on a budget, plastic toys typically cost less than silicone. 

No matter what your G spot vibrator is made from, you should wash it thoroughly after use with soap and water. 

When it comes to sterilization, you can’t pop your vibrator into the dishwasher or boil it because of the motor (unless there’s a removable motor). Instead, you’ll need to spray your toy with a 10-to-1 mixture of bleach and water. Let that sit for at least three minutes before rinsing.

Choose a lint-free or microfiber towel to dry it. Storing in a satin or plastic zipper bag can prevent your toy from collecting dust in between uses. Caring for your G-spot vibrator can help it last years or even decades, so it’s always ready when you are.

There’s truly a G spot vibrator out there for everyone who likes them, and we hope you feel ready to take on the world of G spot vibrators with this information!